Whenever you’re browsing adult personals, it’s going to be extremely important for you to actually stand out on your own. You’ve probably seen them–the kinds of profiles that you just never want to look at again. They’re blank, they’re boring, and they aren’t the kinds of profiles that are going to make women actually pay attention to you.
Rather than posting a profile like that, you need a profile that’s actually going to make women want to talk to you. You want to make sure that women are interested in you for you, and that they know a lot about you before they end up even chatting to you. If you have a well-fleshed out profile, the women that are browsing adult personal ads are going to end up chatting with you much more frequently…and they’re going to want to end up sleeping with you a lot more often than you’d ever believe.
Knowing how to craft that profile is a specialty of ours, and it’s going to end up helping you stand out in a crowd of nobodies. You’ll be set apart from all the other guys that are using these websites, and after you read through our guide, you’re actually going to have the preparation that it takes to make women talk to you. They’ll not only want to chat up with you, but they’ll want to end up having a much longer online relationship that can end up resulting in a lot of real life sex.
Your profile needs to stand out.
You’ve probably seen a lot of profiles online that are really not doing their job. Chances are, they’re full of dick pics and have a lot of gibberish about what kinds of women they like. That’s not all there is to you, and you don’t want to end up just melting into the crowds by looking like a complete idiot. You want to have your profile fleshed out, interesting, and with pictures that are going to end up enticing women rather than driving them away. Remember, women on these sites want to feel like they’re talking to a person, not someone that’s going to end up creeping on them the whole time.
That’s why it’s so important to avoid dick pics in general. While it’s fine to send her one if she actually wants to see it, never, ever post one onto your online profile. That’s just going to end up making her turn her nose up and look in the other direction. Instead, your profile needs to stand out with a good picture of your face as the first thing that she sees. Always smile, and always make sure that your hair is brushed, your beard tidy or be otherwise cleanshaven, and that the rest of you looks like you actually take care of yourself on a regular basis.
We’re all pretty average looking guys, and that’s why you shouldn’t be afraid of showing your face online. Adult classifieds are all about getting your face out there and getting your body out there after that. Don’t just post pics of your shirtless self, however; you don’t want to end up coming off as a creep. If there’s a picture of you on a beach that you took a vacation on, that’s one thing; if it’s just you in a dark, dingy background, then think again about posting that particular picture.
Be polite and friendly.
Whenever you’re using these sites, you really do want to stand out as someone that’s polite, friendly, and intelligent. This is going to be a huge stand out because most of the guys on these sites don’t even try to have a profile with correct grammar. They just want to post a picture of their cock and get women to talk to them, which is really not going to be the way these sites work. Talk about your job, your interests, and the kinds of things that you’d love to be able to do with her…that have nothing to do with sex.
If you immediately jump into a sexual conversation with these women, don’t be surprised when they run away screaming. You wouldn’t immediately strike up a conversation with a woman in person and try to have a sexual conversation, would you? If the answer is that yes, you would, then that’s why you aren’t getting laid. Women expect a certain degree of intimacy before you start talking about sex with them, so always try to be polite and let them get into a sexual context before you even make a move in that general direction. This way, you’ll end up making them be much more comfortable.
Always use the right grammar and spelling.
If it’s your profile, you want it to read correctly. That means always making an effort to have the right spelling and grammar on it, and that means really trying to make sure that women aren’t put off by the lack of correct diction present. You want to come off as intelligent, and if you aren’t sure, then there are plenty of places that will look over your profile for free online. Even a friend will probably be more than willing to help you out here.
You just need to take the time to do it right!